How to Win Your Ex Back: Winning Your Ex Back Without Losing Your Mind
By Tigress Luv, author of The Breakup Eraser
I know you want to learn how to win your ex back. Your ex is all you think about and dream about; they are all you long for and hope for and maybe even live for.
However, in order to win your ex back, you have to first let your ex go. You have to release them back to themselves, and to their own life, and move on with yours.
There is an old saying, ‘If you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, they are yours forever. If they don't, then it was never meant to be’.
That is because true love is a constant. You can subdue it a little by being overly attached and by making wrong choices within your relationship, but it is a constant. If you allow it to be free from chains, it will seek to be by you. If you try to place that love in a cell and keep it subdued and enslaved – all while hurting or torturing it – it will not be able to love you freely anymore. It will become unhealthy and uncomfortable – just like the relationship.
If you want to win your ex back, you have to think of doing the opposite of what isn’t working for you. For instance, if you are attaching to your ex like barnacles on a whale then release your ex and start detaching yourself from them and their business or personal life. If you are flirting around with others trying to make your ex jealous, then stop flirting and start showing more contentment with yourself.
See, whatever it is that you are doing wrong is turning your ex away and not helping in your efforts at winning your ex back, you must stop doing it! Why keep pouring gasoline on a fire that you want to put out?
In addition, you must really work on changing your role in the breakdown of your relationship.
Of course, all these things are common knowledge. You probably already knew all this. You can find some secret methods for successfully winning your ex back at the Breakup Eraser. You also must realize that you know your ex better than just about anybody right now, so if you were to just step away from the situation for a bit you probably will get a more clear picture of what you need to do to win your ex back. You also may see, after some ‘time out’ period that you do not really need your ex quite as much as the breakup made you feel like you did.
You can learn from the report, how to get over that breakup, just why you grieve so hard for your lost ex, and how to get over them and move on. You might be surprised that your loving thoughts and grief over your ex actually has nothing to do with true love – or your ex.
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