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How Do I Get Him to Notice Me?

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How Do I Get Him to Notice Me?
By Tigress Luv, author of The Man Attracter.


How do I get him to notice me?

It is hard. You are attracted to a man that does not even notice you. Well, maybe not in 'that way'. Maybe he sees you as a friend, or maybe he just does not find himself attracted to you. We have all been there.

And now you are asking the age-old question, how do I get him to notice me?

Well, first off, let us start with the things that you should not be doing to draw attention to yourself. You know, those negative things. Like hanging all over other men in hopes of making him jealous. Or dressing like a 'bad girl' hoping to catch his eye.

Then there are those things that we do when we are really young. For instance, we get real loud, or squeaky sounding. We over exaggerate our voices and our moves.

Moreover, do not think you are going to get him to notice you if you try to become his 'friend' … because then you are trapped in the 'friend zone' and that is not a good place to be if you have romantic interests in him.

If you are trapped in the friend zone and you ask 'how do I get him to notice me', you can read the report, Friends to Lovers: How to turn that secret crush into a real relationship. You can find it at

There are also many secrets to make a man fall in love with you, but only one that I have heard of that really, really works. And I mean it is an awesome secret that can make just about any man notice you, and fall in love with you. You can read the secret at

Still asking yourself, how do I get him to notice me? And still stumped? First, remember to be yourself. People are fascinating just as they are. They do not need to put on airs and pretend to be someone that they are not. I mean, eventually the real you will show itself so you might as well be 'you' from minute one. Do not waste your time trying to impress a man by pretending to be something that you are not. What will impress him the most is that you feel so confident in the real you that you do not have to be all fake and phony.

Men love charm, too. Charm captures a man every single time, so be your most charming self. To answer your question how to get him to notice me just remember these hints. Be yourself. Show your charm. Do not get caught in the friend zone.


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