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He broke up with me and won’t talk to me!!

he broke up with me and won’t talk to me

He broke up with me and won’t talk to me!
By the author of How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back.


He broke up with me and won't talk to me

I get emails all the time from women who write, ‘He broke up with me and won't talk to me'. I do understand that this is a common problem. And I also understand how horrible it is to not have an ex boyfriend want to still be your friend, or at least talk to you.

Many people want to remain friends after a breakup, but it is not always possible. While it is much easier to remain friends with our exes, it always can create problems if the breakup was not an amicable one, or if one party did not want to breakup, and the other initiated the breakup anyway.

If your ex boyfriend won't talk to you, it can probably cause a lot of hurt feelings, and feelings of rejection and being unattractive. It is hard enough on our egos to be ‘dumped', but far worse when we feel like we did something wrong, we have no closure, or when our ex boyfriend will not have anything to do with us.

When you cry out, he broke up with me and won't talk to me, it tells you that you are not happy with the breakup, or that you feel somehow flawed or at fault. It is very hard to accept a breakup and move on when you feel like you did something wrong … especially when you have no idea WHAT IT WAS THAT YOU DID!

If you want your ex boyfriend to talk to you, you have to ask yourself why. Do you want closure? Do you want to feel like it was not anything you did that caused the breakup? Do you want to mend your broken ego by knowing that he still respects and adores you? Do you want him to hear your side?

When you say, ‘he broke up with me and won't talk to me and I must need to know the reason why he broke up with me', you are saying that you are not comfortable with this arrangement. You feel you want and need some form of contact with him.

To get over a breakup and mend a broken heart sometimes we just cannot rely on our ex boyfriend talking to us to make everything all right in our lives again. Sometimes the ex boyfriend won't talk to you, period. No matter what you do! It is up to you to better yourself, to accept the breakup, and to let it go and give him back to himself. Not every breakup is a gentle one. Some hurt – a lot. Some we hardly ever recover from.

It is harder to recover form a breakup when our ex boyfriend was a narcissist or a commitmentphobe. Both cause a special kind of pain that is hard to let go of, and even harder to understand.

You can learn more about breaking up with your narcissist here, or recovering from a commitmentphobe here.

You can learn why your ex boyfriend broke up with you at the article, 45 reasons why he dumped your sorry ass.

If you say, he broke up with me and won't talk to me, and you want to know how to win him back – or at least get him to talk to you again – you can learn some simple, easy tricks to make him fall in adoration with you again. It is easy to get your ex boyfriend to cherish you again if you know the simple tricks to it – and if you know what attracts a man to begin with – and keeps him attracted to you. You can get the answers to these questions at From WHY he broke up with you, to how to make him love you again – and talk to you again.

All in all, your ex boyfriend won't talk to you and it is making your life miserable in all respects –- or you wouldn't be reading this. We offer the help you need to get him back on your side, and back in your arms, so you will never be crying these words again, he broke up with me and won't talk to me!


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